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  • Even Disney Parents Yell

    Like every good parent of young children, I watch a lot of Disney movies. The Incredibles was on tv the other day and I caught a few minutes in between answering the demands of two children. During 10 minutes of the movie I had time to watch, Elastigirl (the mom), yelled at her children several […]

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  • Bet on Yourself

    Courageous, strong, brave. I have been called these words a lot recently. I don’t feel any of them.  I feel weak and tired. I feel sorry for myself. I am procrastinating on sending out my daughter’s birthday invitations because the thought of being surrounded by people is overwhelming. I keep getting ads on my Facebook […]

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  • Ritz and Easy Cheese

    My husband has a saying, “life can’t always be Ritz and Easy Cheese.” I’m not sure where it came from but it has become a staple saying in our house. (Only in Kentucky would a buttery cracker and a spray cheese be considered “the good life.”) Today is our nine year wedding anniversary and this […]

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  • Making the best of it

    If you have never heard of Mel Robbins you must stop your life, watch her videos, and buy her book, The Five Second Rule. My husband bought me the book months ago. I was pissed. Why did I need motivation? The highly offensive book sat on my nightstand collecting dust. After picking an unnecessary fight […]

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  • Let Them Love You

    I want to be on my couch or in my bed. I want to hide and feel sorry for myself and avoid all human contact. I don’t want to have to look anyone in the eye and see the pity. Upon learning that I had lost my son at 19 weeks, the midwife told me […]

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  • Three Wasn’t Meant to be

    19 weeks. Yesterday, at 19 weeks and 4 days, I went to the doctor.  I had some spotting and light cramping, which was something that hadn’t happened since 14 weeks.  I wasn’t worried.  I had worked out that morning.  The midwife told me to come in just in case.  The nurse wasn’t worried. This was […]

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  • The Beauty and Beast of a Schedule

    One of the biggest consternations for new parents is the need for a schedule.  Parents are told over and over that their child will be so much happier, sleep better, and get into an ivy league school if kept on a schedule.  Let me burst your bubble or maybe ease your fears.  Some of the […]

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  • Lucky #3

    Our daughter was 6.  Our son was 3.  Inspiration struck….wouldn’t it be great to add a third!  I was almost 38.  If we started trying immediately, I would have the baby when I was 38 and would breastfeed for one year.  I would be free by the time I turned 40.  Perfection!   But month after […]

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  • So, I did a “thing”

    That’s what the younger kids say…”I did a thing.”  After looking for a community of “older” new moms and not finding much, this geriatric mom did a “thing” and started a blog in hopes that other older new moms can find support, kindness, and other people to share their experiences or answer questions. Why Geriatric […]

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